anal intercourse: mudslide, back door, Greek way (coitus in
ano)
monkey-finger = vaginal or anal digital penetration
ream = (1)forceful intercourse or rape, usually referencing
anal rather than vaginal or oral, (2)to take strong advantage of or
to hurt someone
take it in the ass = (1)receive anal intercourse, (2)to be
taken advantage of
dogging = engaging in sex in a car or other observable location
while others watch doggystyle = copulation position with male
entering from behind, with female (coitus a tergo or coitus posteriori)
or receiving male (coitus in ano) on hands and knees rimming
= oral-anal interaction (analingus)
anus: ass/asshole, jaxy, poopchute, pooper, popo, hershey
highway, bunghole, bumhole, butthole, garbage dump, dumper, dump truck,
male cunt, puckered hole
bisexuality: AC-DC, switch-hit, two-way, both ways or both
kinds, swing, either way group sex: orgy, daisy chain, circle jerk,
gang bang, group swinging, group grope, rampant party, panties-party
(lesbian group), Willie-wacking party (male group)
breasts: bosom, boobs/boobie, bust, bud, cones/silicones
or bolt-ons or built-ons (i.e., in reference to surgically augmented
breasts), duke or dukes, headlights, hooters, chest, jugs, knobs,
knockers, melons, tatas, tit or tittie (particularly referring to
the nipple & areola), udders, yabos, nips, pointers or points,
wonders (in reference to using a padded/pushup bra from brandname
Wonder Bra), mams Rawhide bra = any push-up bra (from Rawhide television
theme: "head em up, move em out")
condom: jocky johnnie, glove, protection, rubber, safety,
sheik, trojan, raincoat, party hat, sleeve French letter or French
safes
circumcised penis: bald or baldie (because the glans is exposed
when an uncircumcised penis becomes erect, thus "bald" can
refer to an erection as well)
clitoris: clit, button or love button, chovis, dealybob, man
in the boat, tongue candy (as object of cunnilingus), where the action
is, female dick or little dick
lallies = legs, particularly attractive legs labia: lips, pussy
lips, lady lips, pantie-lips, cunt-lips, honey lips vaginal secretions:
quim, lubri-cunt, honey, hot honey or golden honey, pussy dew or cunt
dew, wet, being wet, wet & wild, lovin-juice, cunt juice,
sluice labia minora and vestibule/vagina: clam, shell, gash, slit,
slot or love-slot, the pink, crack, cleft, pussy, hole, chovis
copulation: shag, fuck, drill, screw, bang, bonk, ball, servicing,
lovin, humping, pumping, diddling, spooning, tupping, sleep
with, make whoopie, make love, make it, do it, go at it, get it on,
get laid, get some, get the little man wet, get the dick wet, wet
the Willie, put the weiner in the bun, make a meat sandwich, dip the
stick, party or party-on-down, makin bacon (implies overweight
status of one or both partners), to dick-dip or dick diving, boffing,
roll in the hay, mattress polo, coffee table or pool table lumbago,
fusion & fission, slamming (refers primarily to an act of physical
performance without love/heart involvment), getting in/into the pink
or getting the pink, performing the wifely duty, poking or pickle-poking,
get oil changed
score = to obtain sexual favors or intercourse
frig = to obtain orgasm or engage in copulation
twang plums = to arouse or stimulate a male, usually including
ejaculation
cranking = (1)copulating or (2)using amphetamines
put out = providing obligatory sexual activity
ex-sex or a rerun roll = copulation with an ex-spouse; there
are three basic types:
(1) last-hurrah, which is ending with a bang so to speak;
(2) bad-idea, which proves most unpleasant, and demonstrates once
and for all the marriage is over;
(3) out-of-loneliness-and-weakness sex, which is usually motivated
by desperation and usually has the effect of reinforcing the depression
sympathy-fuck aka mercy-fuck = sexual activity initiated or
motivated by pity rather than by arousal, love, or financial gain
(e.g., a wife gives sex only because husband looks sad, or a prostitute
doesnt charge for sex due to feeling sorry for client) to
be had = (1)to be taken advantage of, or (2)to be the recipient
of copulation, usually the unwilling recipient piece or piece of ass
= (1)an event of copulation or (2)a sexually desirable person
boob-fucking = stimulation of penis between pressed-together
breasts (coitus inter mammae)
Dominant: the person who directs the scene and issues the
commands
Dungeon = a room designed and decorated specifically for SM
play. Also known as "play room" (Henkin & Holiday)
Endorphins = A group of endogenous, morphine-like hormones
secreted by the brain when the body is under unusual stress, which
fit into the brain's optiod receptorsand stimulate them to fire, producing
tranquilizing and pain-killing properties thatappear to help induce
a sort of euphoria; some people report feeling a state of well-being
similar to endorphin euphoria after experiencing intense sensations
such as those associated with prolonged flogging. (Henkin & Holiday)
Fetishism = eroticization of objects, behaviors, and/or body
parts
Fisting = insertion of hand or large part of hand into rectal,
vaginal or oral cavity.
Golden Showers (GS) = playing with urine for erotic purposes
Heavy Play = sophisticated or advanced activities or techniques
used for psychological or physical stimulation that require special
training for safety reasons, e.g. breath control, cutting, temporary
and/or permanent piercing, branding, burning, electroplay: also play
that is very intense physically and / or psychologically, as very
intense pain, or very intense surrender. (Henkin & Holiday)
Humiliation = deliberate ego reduction for consensual erotic purposes,
ranging from mild embarrassment to degradation; may be physical and
/or psychological. (Henkin & Holiday)
Immobilization = rendering a bottom helpless by completely
restricting movement
Infantilism = eroticization of being treated (or treating someone
else) as a baby or toddler.
Limits = boundaries of consent as negotiated between partners,
including activities in which one person does not wish to participate.
(Henkin & Holiday)
Medical = scenes, examinations, procedures, and/or equipment,
such as uniforms, enemas, rectal thermometer, catheters, sounds. (Henkin
& Holiday)
Mistress= feminine title of respect accorded one who dominates
a consenting partner
Mummification = bondage effected by encasing a person in material,
so that he is tightly restrained and looks like a mummy.
NT = nipple torture, or intense stimulation of the nipples
Negotiation = conferring and discussing to reach an agreement
about what will happen in an SM scene regarding likes, dislikes, limits,
health issues, roles, etc.
Restraints = cuffs, usually made of leather, that close around
wrists and ankles and also, sometimes, around thighs, waist, etc.
Safe Word = word or gesture previously agreed upon for use
by both Tops and bottoms to halt the action in a scene or a relationship.
Sensory Depravation = using blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, hoods,
bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses.
(Henkin & Holiday)
Service = doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an
expression of
obedience, respect, submission, devotion, love, etc.
Slave = person who is consensually owned as property of another.
Submission = volitional giving up of control and power: decision
that one is not in charge. (Henkin & Holiday)
Submissive = person who gives up power and control in a scene.
Suspension = a form of bondage in which a person is partly
or fully raised off the ground.
Toy = equipment used in a SM scene. aka, tool, gear, equipment
Worship = adoring and / or loving a person, a person's body
or body part, or a thing in a reverential manner - such as boots.
(Henkin & Holiday)
leathers = peek-a-boo leather clothing often worn during B
& D activities
handkerchief codes = color codes use to identify sexual play
preferences
Bottom = term references (1)female or homosexual male who most
prefers to receive sexual intercourse (usually in a submissive and
passive way), and/or (2)the passive participant who experiences stimuli
during sadomasochistic sex games (also termed the submissive or the
masochist). Henkin & Holiday definition is: "umbrella term
for the person in the scene who takes the submissive, receptive or
masochistic role"
Top = term references (1)female or male who prefers to dominate
or control the act of copulation (usually in the thrusting role),
and/or (2)the participant who controls stimuli during sadomasochistic
sex games (also termed sadist or dominatrix [females only, and usually
for hire]).
switch = (1)person who enjoys playing either/both the bottom-masochist
role or the top-sadist role, (2)a bisexual person, (3)a small whip
used in B&D activities
scat or shit = feces
erect penis: ICBM or missile, stiffie or stiff, bone/boner,
horn, shaft, knob, having "hot rocks," hard on, hot and
bothered, pole, baldie or bald dick (uncircumcized)
ejaculated semen: spunk, cum/come, cream, pudding, juice,
dingleberry juice, love juice, load, jism, jis/jazz, sauce, cum-snot,
oyster , slime, man milk, squirt
female homosexual: nellie, pervert, fruit, auntie, sister,
lesbian, lezzie or lez, jockey, butch, dyke -
Lipstick lesbians = lesbians who usually wear fashionable
clothes and make-up; often considered "ultra-feminine,"
often referred to as "femmes" - LUG / Lesbian Until Graduation
= adolescent lesbianism, usually nonpolitical, motivated most often
by either:
testing/rebellion/experimentation (adolescent differentiation
process); or
seeking a safe way of investigating sexuality ("trying
out her carnal wings in a
familiar nest"); i.e., a reaction of avoiding the typically demanding
male sexuality
(i.e., until male peers mature into a more co-equal sexuality -- described
by GQ as "the time when boys finally learn not to ram their tongues
into tomorrow").
Lumberjack lesbians = stereotypical strong/sturdy/buff, preferring
to wear
traditionally male clothing (flannel/wool shirts, hiking boots, etc.),
short cropped
hair and no make-up. Often quite politically active.
Lesbian Separatists = lesbians who actively campaign against
men, feeling they
are warriors in a "battle of the sexes." Reacting to male
domination and
oppression, they seek an all-female society which avoids and ignores
men altogether; indeed, some live in female Separatist communes. And
some prefer to not be involved in interactive sexual activity at all.
Lavender lesbians = Earth-mothers or hippies; often artists;
usually espousing holistic medicine, herbal cures, health foods and/or
witchcraft; often refer to deity as goddess and participate in paganistic
rituals. Preferring the natural state, they
object to such practices as shaving armpits or legs. (Georgia OKeefe
is
considered to be a favorite artist.)
Hollywood lesbians = originally just Lily Tomlin, but led by
the boisterous
spokeswoman Sandra Bernhardt and the 70s film Personal Best,
lesbianism
become quite romanticized in Hollywood. It was no coincidence that
Personal Best star Mariel Hemingway, though not a lesbian, was the
same actress who gave the first prime-time television kiss (on an
episode of Roseanne, where else).
Music lesbians = The organization Strong Women in Music (SWIM)
is not just big stars but includes non-famous members as well. When
prominent Music lesbian Melissa Etheridge announced her girlfriend
was pregnant, Entertainment Weekly(6 September 1996, p. 8) quipped
"that will put an end to the rumor that shes impotent"
Gertrude Stein lesbians = intellectual lesbians (usually middle-aged
or older) whotend to gravitate toward the Arts, serving on civic and
university Performing Artscommittees, etc. They usually have a perfect
blend of ready wit, political outrage and excellent schooling. "They
tend to rule in whatever field they enter."
Jock lesbians = (aka "Jockettes," a derisive term)
are women who win at sports,
whether lesbian or not. Favorites include Billy Jean King and Martina
Navratilova;
other female-sports sex symbols (circa 1999): Ila Borders, baseball;
Mia Hamm, soccer; Martina Hingis, tennis; Marion Jones, track; Nikki
McCray, basketball; Anna Kournikova, tennis.
Leather lesbians = lesbians who are into D&S and fetishes;
many are dominatrixes.
Boston marriage = (1)a term formerly describing single women
living together; nowadays more often refers to (2)a romantic yet asexual
long-term lesbian relationship.
heterosexual: straight, conventional, square, vanilla
hymen: cherry, maidenhead, virginity, the proof, the test
male homosexual: fairy, faggot or fag, gay, queer, nellie,
swish, homo, pervert, fruit, invert, pansy, princess, queen, sister,
flit, nance, auntie, sodomist, granny, disco- dancer, limpwrist, Oscar
Wilde reader, Streisand-ticket-holder, Buftie
male receiving (fellacio): hummer, blow job, suck cock, eat
a sausage or a hot dog, take to lunch, a hot dog lunch or a sausage
lunch, a sticky sweet facial (references ejaculate on face), a swallow
sandwich, lipstick on the dipstick
Faggot Fair = (pejorative) gay pride parade/celebration/demonstration/gathering
menstruation: Aunt Sally or Aunt Martha, visit Aunt Sally/Martha,
the bleed or the blood, coming around again, cramps, curse, period,
monkey-on-my-back, rag or on the rag, that time, time of the month,
sickness, not well, the way of women, birthday party, grandma is visiting
or visiting grandma, on the pad wagon, tampax-
oral-genital interaction: mouth or mouth job, head or give
head, suck, go down, blow, take to lunch, recreational eating, lappin
& lickin
oral-genital interaction, female receiving (cunnilingus):
muff diving, cunt-lapping or cunt-licking, facing pink, eating pink,
pink lunch,in the pink, flying a twat, eat out, eat/dine/dinner at
the Y or the Y diner or the cafeteria, licking her lips, munch my
carpet, magic carpet ride, frenching, gammahoucher (outdated term)
Sixty-Nine (Soixante-Neuf) "69" or the numbers game = simultaneous
oral-genital interaction between two people oral-genital interaction,
orgasm (either gender): come, get there, get off, fire off,
copping off, score, reach it, make it, finish, climax, peak, large
it, peak ejaculation/emission: shoot or shoot his wad, squirt, cream
or whipped cream, blastoff, explode, make pudding
particularly large penis: whopper, long-dong, Moby Dick, jumbo
elephant, size XXL
penis: Willie, Jimmy, Dick, Peter, John or john-john, banana,
cock, dong/schlong, ding-dong, ding-a-ling, drill, dip stick, hose,
joy stick, gun, hose, meat, pecker, prick, pud, rod, snorkel, stonker,
todger/dodger, tool, unit, wang, wong, weiner, wee wee, Mr. Happy,
wanker, Little Louie, Louie-Louie, spout, outdoor plumbing, pony,
lumberjack, pickle, cyclops
scrotum: sack, bag (note however that "hose bag"
refers to vagina), scrotes
sexually attractive man: babe, beefcake, bod, dude, gigolo,
heartbreaker, honcho, honey, hunk, John-John, jumbo (from "Jumbo"
the elephant; references large penis), lover, lunch, my guy or my
man, rider, rump, roller, snatch, symbolic (from "sex symbol"),
starter, stud or stud-muffin, sweetie, tush
sexually attractive woman: babe, baby, bird, bod, chick, date,
fox, kitten, mama or big mama, nookie, nymph, panty or panties, piece,
skirt, snatch, sweetie, heartbreaker,lover, tush, willie wacker, fly
buster, Betty, Mantovani, bimbette, hole, lubrication,kickin
or hotchin
syphilis: bad blood, siph, pox, lues (derived from pustules)
crabs = (1)pubic lice, or (2)VD/STD in general
testicles: plums, rocks, stones, dingleberries, balls, nuts,
jewels or crown jewels or family jewels, potatoes (as in "meat
and potatoes" referring to penis and testicles), cojones (Spanish),
peaches, oysters
time menstrual discharge: siff, ziff, the bloody, kotex juice
peaches = (1)vulva, (2)breasts, or (3)testicles
cleft = (1)area between labia majora, (2)cleavage between breasts,
(3)cleavage
between male or female buttocks
crack = [1] vagina or [2] buttock cleavage (or, of course,
[3] rock cocaine)
snatch = (1)vulva/vagina, (2)copulation or sexual interaction
in general, (3)a
sexually attractive man or woman
curvies = female secondary sex characteristics, particularly
referencing the rounded outlines of waist, breasts, and buttocks
fanny = female anus and/or buttocks
knickers or knicks = panties (British)
crotchless knicks crotchless panties = underwear with cutouts exposing
the genitalia
peek-a-boo bra = bra with cutouts exposing the nipples and
areola
playing slits & clits or licks & slits = lesbian or multiple
female sexual interaction
lickety-split = (1)quick sexual episode culminating in orgasm,
(2)cunnilingus,
(3)lesbian sexual interaction
peach fuzz = pubic hair buttocks and/or including anus: ass,
behind, hind end, hinder or hiney, bottom, bum, buns, butt, can bippies,
cheeks, fanny (female), keister, popo, rear or rear end, rump, seat
or seater or sitters, tush or tushie, mooner, booty, back door
uncircumcised penis: shrouded, capped dick, sheathed, cloaked
or using a cloaking device, heathen dick or gentile dick
VD/STDs in general: clasp, dose, old Joe, whites, morning
dew, a strain, wages (from "wages of sin") gonorrhea: clap,
dose, drip
vulva: down there, beaver, crotch, Y-view, the Y, YMCA, lady-lips,
money-maker, yoni, pussy, bush or bushland, tush, concha
pussy = collective name for all female genitalia, more especially
vagina
concha (Spanish) = collective name for female external genitalia,
especially labia minora and vagina (which at times somewhat resemble
a shell/concha)
bush = vulva or vagina, particularly references pubic hair
tush = vulva, more particularly including buttocks and/or anus
Y-front, YMCA, or the Y = female frontal nudity; resembles
shape of the letter Y
tail = (1)vulva, (2)male or female buttocks/anus, or (3)copulation
vulva, particularly unshaved: hair or fur pie, furry fanny, bearded
clam, fuzzy
beaver vulva, more particularly labia and vagina: box or ball-box,
baby-hole or hole, cunt or cunny, honey pot, hose bag, minge, muff,
nookie or nuckie, poon tang, pudenda (from pudendum; note, however,
that "pud" usually refers to penis), snatch, taco, tuna
or tuna-fish or fishie, twat, gash, the pink, pussy, concha female
mons pubis: mons, the hump, mound or pussy mound, forest, bushland
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Odd words
kinky = mode of sexual activity which is considered to be
either/or (1)very arousing and desirable, or (2)unusual and abnormal.
A very idiosyncratically-defined term.
stuffing = inserting objects into vagina or anus
snuffing = sex play which results in death; e.g., a snuff scene
involves someone
being killed while involved in [painful or violent] sexual activities
tv or TV = transvestite
cross-dressing = wearing clothing typical of the opposite sex,
often clandestinely
drag = wearing clothing and make-up typical of the opposite
sex; so as to appear to actually be of the opposite sex
T & A = "Tits and Ass" usually in reference to
displays of the female body (e.g.,
strippers or dancers); often references objectified female sexuality
in general
ts or TS or T-person = transsexual; the more current terminology is
Transgendered.
S & M = Sadistic and Masochistic sexual stimulation (sadomasochism)
B & D = Bondage and Discipline, a type of sadomasochistic
sexual interaction
C P = Corporal Punishment, a type of B&D/sadomasochistic
sexual interaction
D & S = Dominance and Submission, terms which are preferred
to use to reference sadomasochistic sexual interaction
vanilla = (1)conventional sexual relations, (2)any sexual interaction
that does not
include sadomasochistic/D&S sexual play
BDSM = A single collection of overlapping initials intended
to identify three
components of erotic power play - BD, DS, and SM at once ; also see
What do you mean BDSM? Also see excerpts from
sexuality.org, from alt.sex, and alt.sex.bondage FAQs 1, 2, 3
Brown Showers (BS) = using feces (scat) in an erotic context.
C&B or CBT = cock and ball torture; intense stimulation
of the male genitals more
often associated with pain, bondage, endurance, etc.
Caning = Use of a cane, a flexible rod. Very intense and leaves
more pronounced marks.
Collar = band of leather, metal, cloth, etc. encircling the
neck; signifies a bottom role
Consensual = based on mutual agreement; not coerced; one of
the three cornerstones
of social SM play: Safe, Sane & Consensual
Dominance = controlling and directing the scene
shitter or crapper = (1)anus or (2)toilet
moon or to "shoot the moon" = expose the buttocks, usually
in jest
peds = feet and toes, as sexual objects
Chester or bugger = child molester
sorted = arrangements have been completed
nish = nothing/none/no more
date = an event of prostitution, as in: "Hey sailor, looking
for a date?"dibble = a close brush with the authorities/police
kickin =wonderful, great
Renton = very short hair style (after protagonist Rentons
haircut in the movie
Trainspotting -- same actor and similar hair style popularized
in Star Wars
Phantom Menace); considered sexy
large it = to have a good time, enjoy ones self, experience
orgasm
vada = to look at or closely examine
mental = bizarre, kinky, or out of control (previously meaning
undesirable, but increasingly refers to desirability)
nasty = sexual desire or behavior, most often indiscriminate
horny = sexually aroused
naughty = sexual behavior or desire
randy or raunchy = strong sexual desire/arousal and indiscriminate
sexual behavior
rampant = indiscriminate near-uncontrolled sexual behavior
rude = sexual desire or behavior which is demanding, inconsiderate
and/or
indiscriminate
plumpers = sexually desirable obese persons
Betty Dodson = to masturbate while being observed and/or encouraged
(in reference to the famous therapist who conducts group self-stimulation
seminars; see her book
pervies = male and female persons interested in indiscriminate
sexuality
clergy = [derogatory] persons considered to have sexual hang-ups
punters = [derogatory] persons who observe a stripper, dancer
or pornographic
movie (and masturbate while observing, or later)
tea room = a restroom used for hustling and fellacio
trollop = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction
tart = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction,
often for hire
ho (whore) or puta = prostitute
slut = person who seeks for and/or participates in indiscriminate
sexual behavior, but usually not in reference to being for hire
suck face or smackin or mackin = deep kissing,
French kissing, tongue kissing foreplay: necking, petting, make out,
scoring, operating, play around or fool around, dry humping, playing
"doctor," get serious, get down to business, get hot or
hot & bothered, warm up, pre-game show, taxi for take-off
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